Life With Boys

The mis-adventures of two crazy boys and their bleary eyed parents.


Jo Zeimet on Lani’s Father and the Family Story

Recovered family correspondence — March 4–6, 2007.

While Danielle was developing the family/Pearl Harbor book and website, Jo Zeimet questioned parts of the developing family narrative and supplied memories she had heard from her mother.

March 4 — Jo

You write well. A couple of thoughts —

Have you decided your perspective? In other words, is it a book about you and your grandmother, or 3 generations and how it flowed from this experience, or about a 20-something girl from SD who ended up in the middle of a war?

Are you sure about the custody battle thing? That’s news to me.

Enjoy your project and thanks for the peek.

March 5 — Danielle

All good questions — I’ll have to see about it. As for the custody thing — I know Mom told me that James kidnapped her at least once.

D-

March 5 — Jo

I don’t think the latter is accurate, but I wasn’t there… Are you hot enough on the internet to do ancient research on CA divorces??

March 6 — Danielle

If I was, what would I be looking for?

D-

March 6 — Jo

God, I don’t know. I cruised California and divorce records for awhile, and I’m not sure they go back that far on-line. If you had the date and county, you might ask for an official record, which should have custody stuff on it. I thought they got divorced in CA, not Hawaii. Lani was born in Glendale, yes?

My memory from what Mom said was, he never paid them any attention or a dime of support. He telephoned once when Lani was about 4th grade, and he sent her a globe once for Christmas. To my knowledge, that was it.

Is it germane to your story?



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