In addition to being overwhelmed with my duties as healer I’m having such a hard time finding the balance between my jobs as wife and mom and professional.
Lately professional has been taking too much of my thought time and energy. I know I am capable of much more than I’ve been doing lately and it’s frustrating. But all along I’ve said I’m a Mom first and I work part-time to allow myself the flexibility to deal with illness, field trips and whatever else comes up. And it’s a trade off. I can’t be responsible for day-to-day deadlines because I can’t be available for my job 24-7 — which is so hard for me to remember as others take on responsibilities that in some respects I believe should be mine.
I must remember that I am working to live, not living to work, and I’m afraid I’m short changing my family and in turn myself. now at the same time I’m also feeling overwhelmed about trying to find time to pursue projects that are just mine.
Just how do people find this balance? Do I just want too much? Maybe.
The pull from within …
2 responses to “The pull from within …”
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I don’t think there is a perfect balance, at least I haven’t found it. But what I have found that has helped a little, is to stop putting so much guilt on myself. I am not a perfect mother, but I am not a bad one either. I may be a crazy woman at times running from meetings to doctors, to violin lessons, etc. But a working moms life is never dull! So on those days that make you feel like everything is too much, remember that in the eyes of your family, friends, coworkers and even strangers, you are amazing!
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Danielle I feel your pain. It is so hard to balance everything. Kids, work, husband. Remember it is important to take time for your self especially after a stressful time. My favorite thing to do is sit in my big chair in my room with a glass of wine and a good book, lock the door so no one can get in. You are an amazing mom, wife,sister and friend!!!!
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